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5 Reasons Not to Settle for ‘Duty Sex’
Duty sex, pity sex, guilt sex, starfish sex, hate sex … there are a lot of different names for it. It’s this idea that in a marriage, the lower-drive partner (usually the wife, but not always) should have sex simply to please...
How Much Sunshine Do You Need for Powerful Erections?
If you listen to mainstream media, you get the idea that we should all avoid any hint of deadly sunshine. Turns out that while the vampire lifestyle may be great for your complexion, it’s hell on your erections. In fact, Dracula...
Why She Doesn’t Want Sex Even when She’s Attracted … 5 Ways to Build Intimacy
My blog post ideas typically come straight from things going on with my coaching clients. One thing I’m seeing a lot of lately is a lack of intimacy/connection in the couples I work with, and the resulting decline in their sex...
7-Minute Fix that Instantly Improves Intimacy
If I told you it’s possible to hack into the brain and almost instantly increase feelings of love and intimacy, would you believe it? It’s actually true. Take two people, put them together with certain questions and have them...
5 Ways to Get Her Off Her Phone and Into Bed
Ever wonder why she’ll stay on Facebook or play Candy Crush for hours, but has absolutely no energy for sex? One word answer … Dopamine. Dopamine is the chemical in our brain that rewards us with pleasure whenever we do...
Top 10 Signs that Your Wife is Attracted
Reader question from a few days ago: Hi Rebecca, ... Lots of advice on the website have the prerequisite that the woman should already be attracted. Can you please help and give clues on how would I know if my wife is attracted...
‘I Was Hooked’: Bodybuilder Rich Piana’s Deadly Battle with Steroids
Dead at age 46, decades of abusing steroids made Rich Piana a god in the bodybuilding world. But it ultimately killed him. Testosterone therapy and steroid abuse. What's the difference? The difference is huge. Literally. Super...
Testosterone = Erections & Quality of Life, New Study Shows
Boston University School of Medicine found that for guys with low testosterone, taking T therapy improved their erections, as well as their overall quality of life. They were also less likely to have urinary and prostate...
The 3 Times a Woman Initiates Like a Man
I get a lot of questions about why women don’t initiate more … like men do. Or initiate more like men. Well, the answer is simple … they aren’t men. And then I get angsty blog comments like this … She wanted sex tonight,...
Better Erections: The One Daily Habit that’s Tanking Your Performance
Mouthwash … it doesn’t just kill plaque. Now, that's a slogan you don’t see Proctor & Gamble using. But it's quite likely your mouthwash isn't doing your erections any favors. Read on. Nitric Oxide Produces Good Erections...
