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3 Vital Concepts You Need to Know about Attracting Your Wife
The reason so many guys don’t attract their wives is because they're missing three vital concepts about attraction ... Attraction Doesn’t Grow Itself Someone Has to Take on the Job of Building Attraction You're the One Best...
One Surefire Way to Get Her to Stop Taking You for Granted
Your wife takes you for granted because you're a sure thing. If you want to get her attention and build attraction, you have to do this one thing. Create a sense of Mystery What makes Super Heroes so sexy? Amongst all those...
5 Reasons Not to Settle for ‘Duty Sex’
Duty sex, pity sex, guilt sex, starfish sex, hate sex … there are a lot of different names for it. It’s this idea that in a marriage, the lower-drive partner (usually the wife, but not always) should have sex simply to please...
Top 10 Signs that Your Wife is Attracted
Reader question from a few days ago: Hi Rebecca, ... Lots of advice on the website have the prerequisite that the woman should already be attracted. Can you please help and give clues on how would I know if my wife is attracted...
The 3 Times a Woman Initiates Like a Man
I get a lot of questions about why women don’t initiate more … like men do. Or initiate more like men. Well, the answer is simple … they aren’t men. And then I get angsty blog comments like this … She wanted sex tonight,...
Why She Wants Sex Less Than You
Lots and lots of angry comments and e-mails from guys who are frustrated that their wives don’t want sex as much as they do. Some typical comments: "The truth is “Sexual Love” is a joke and more to do with body chemistry then...
Warm ‘er Up, Lube ‘er Up – 2 Simple Ways to Help Her Find Her ‘O’
Most men get a huge kick out of their wife’s orgasm, especially if they get to help along the way. In fact, studies show that guys say a woman’s orgasm is one of the “most sexually satisfying experiences men could have.” And I’m...
The Secret to Why Your Wife Doesn’t Initiate Sex
So, you’ve been working on the things that build attraction in your marriage, and your wife has become much more interested in you. You’re getting a lot more yes’s and a lot fewer no’s. The only problem is … she never initiates....
How a Checkerboard Explains Why Your Wife Isn’t Having Sex With You
If you're like many men, you are incredibly frustrated in your marriage. Sex is less frequent and less passionate than you'd like. Every time you initiate, it's a hit-or-miss prospect as to whether or not your wife will respond....
One Surefire Way to Tank Your Wife’s Attraction – The Rosie Paradox
Take a look at this picture. But then again, I didn't even have to ask, did I? You did it without even thinking. Your eyes focused on Salma Hayek, and automatically went to her breasts, her legs and her hips without...