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Testosterone Therapy: The Good, the Bad & the Ugly

Testosterone Therapy: The Good, the Bad & the Ugly

I get asked all the time ... "Is testosterone therapy safe?" To which I answer, "Yes ... but not always ... and only if your doctor knows what he's doing. Not much of an answer, I know. The truth is that for the vast majority of guys, testosterone therapy is not only...

3 Vital Concepts You Need to Know about Attracting Your Wife

3 Vital Concepts You Need to Know about Attracting Your Wife

The reason so many guys don’t attract their wives is because they're missing three vital concepts about attraction ... Attraction Doesn’t Grow Itself Someone Has to Take on the Job of Building Attraction You're the One Best Suited for the Job Attraction Doesn’t Grow...

Attract Your Wife – Weekend Warrior Tip #6: Have a Plan

Attract Your Wife – Weekend Warrior Tip #6: Have a Plan

6th in a series … Things You Can Do This Weekend to Attract Your Wife Tomorrow morning, the same conversation will take place in millions of bedrooms across suburbia. “What are our plans for the weekend, husband?” Deceptively simply, but depending on the answer,...

One Surefire Way to Get Her to Stop Taking You for Granted

One Surefire Way to Get Her to Stop Taking You for Granted

Your wife takes you for granted because you're a sure thing. If you want to get her attention and build attraction, you have to do this one thing. Create a sense of Mystery What makes Super Heroes so sexy? Amongst all those muscles and bounding over buildings, they...

Attract Your Wife – Weekend Warrior Tip #4: Stand Your Ground

Attract Your Wife – Weekend Warrior Tip #4: Stand Your Ground

4th in a series … Things You Can Do This Weekend to Attract Your Wife Quickest way to attract your wife? Stand up to her. Sounds deceptively simple, but if you’ve been married for a while, you know how difficult it can be. If you could only do one thing for the rest...

Attract Your Wife – Weekend Tip #3: Go Do Your Own Thing

Attract Your Wife – Weekend Tip #3: Go Do Your Own Thing

3rd in a series … Things You Can Do This Weekend to Attract Your Wife This one sounds counter-intuitive ... how does leaving your wife at the house and going off to do something fun by yourself build attraction? After all, you’re not even with her. All the marriage...

Attract Your Wife – Weekend Tip #2: Hold a Planning Meeting

Attract Your Wife – Weekend Tip #2: Hold a Planning Meeting

2nd in a series … Things You Can Do This Weekend to Attract Your Wife Last week, I talked about how to lead by pulling your wife into your orbit with positive energy and a sense of fun. Another aspect of leadership is simply being someone who has a plan. Think of your...

Attract Your Wife  – Weekend Tip #1: Do Something Active with Her

Attract Your Wife  – Weekend Tip #1: Do Something Active with Her

1st in a series … Things You Can Do This Weekend to Attract Your Wife Leadership. It’s a misunderstood concept. You don’t have to beat your chest and dictate to people in order to lead. At its best, leadership involves pulling, not pushing. You pull people toward you...

Yes, But What if We Really *Are* Turning the Freakin’ Frogs Gay?

Yes, But What if We Really *Are* Turning the Freakin’ Frogs Gay?

You know, I’m not really a conspiracy theorist. I don’t think George Bush caused 9/11, I think we really did walk on the moon, and I don’t think chem trails are turning the freakin’ frogs … well, hold on a sec … There is actually something kind of wonky going on with...

5 Reasons Not to Settle for ‘Duty Sex’

5 Reasons Not to Settle for ‘Duty Sex’

Duty sex, pity sex, guilt sex, starfish sex, hate sex … there are a lot of different names for it. It’s this idea that in a marriage, the lower-drive partner (usually the wife, but not always) should have sex simply to please their partner. In other words … (the...

How Much Sunshine Do You Need for Powerful Erections?

How Much Sunshine Do You Need for Powerful Erections?

If you listen to mainstream media, you get the idea that we should all avoid any hint of deadly sunshine. Turns out that while the vampire lifestyle may be great for your complexion, it’s hell on your erections. In fact, Dracula was likely reaching for the Viagra on a...

7-Minute Fix that Instantly Improves Intimacy

7-Minute Fix that Instantly Improves Intimacy

If I told you it’s possible to hack into the brain and almost instantly increase feelings of love and intimacy, would you believe it? It’s actually true. Take two people, put them together with certain questions and have them look into each others' eyes, and they...

5 Ways to Get Her Off Her Phone and Into Bed

5 Ways to Get Her Off Her Phone and Into Bed

Ever wonder why she’ll stay on Facebook or play Candy Crush for hours, but has absolutely no energy for sex? One word answer … Dopamine. Dopamine is the chemical in our brain that rewards us with pleasure whenever we do something that involves novelty, variety, or...

Top 10 Signs that Your Wife is Attracted

Top 10 Signs that Your Wife is Attracted

Reader question from a few days ago: Hi Rebecca, ... Lots of advice on the website have the prerequisite that the woman should already be attracted. Can you please help and give clues on how would I know if my wife is attracted and how to judge the level of...

Testosterone = Erections & Quality of Life, New Study Shows

Testosterone = Erections & Quality of Life, New Study Shows

Boston University School of Medicine found that for guys with low testosterone, taking T therapy improved their erections, as well as their overall quality of life. They were also less likely to have urinary and prostate problems. They followed almost 700 guys for...

The 3 Times a Woman Initiates Like a Man

The 3 Times a Woman Initiates Like a Man

I get a lot of questions about why women don’t initiate more … like men do.  Or initiate more like men. Well, the answer is simple … they aren’t men. And then I get angsty blog comments like this … She wanted sex tonight, asked me to come to bed naked after my shower,...

Are Men Going the Way of the Dinosaur?

Are Men Going the Way of the Dinosaur?

Remember that ridiculously silly slogan from the 70’s? A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle. Well, biology may just accomplish what the feminists couldn’t. For the hundreds of years in which records have been kept, there have been more male babies born than...

Want More Sex? Stop Asking Her for Money

Want More Sex? Stop Asking Her for Money

Listening to a group of firefighters the other day, and what I heard literally made me wince. One of them is on the phone asking his wife if he can spend twenty bucks on something. No joke. The dude is asking his wife’s permission to spend part of his own salary. But...

The Allergy Med You’re Taking that Causes ED

Re-posting this one as allergy season is upon us ... In most parts of the country, Spring is breaking the back of Winter .... finally. It's warming up, the trees are budding out .... and all that lovely pollen is floating on the warm breezes right into your...

Post Where I Want to Smack a Feminist

Post Where I Want to Smack a Feminist

Not really smack her. Or, at least, not much. Lover, not fighter, and all that. But I did get a bit hot under the collar when my 14-year old son came home with this story. His science teacher, Mrs. W. is a staunch feminist. Which is fine. I'm all about empowering...

Review – Does Zestra Really Increase Female Arousal?

Review – Does Zestra Really Increase Female Arousal?

One request I frequently get from women is for products that will increase their libido and/or arousal. A lot of women struggle with arousal or orgasm, and start feeling pretty desperate about it. What is Zestra? QualiLife Pharmaceuticals makes a product called Zestra...

Why She Wants Sex Less Than You

Why She Wants Sex Less Than You

Lots and lots of angry comments and e-mails from guys who are frustrated that their wives don’t want sex as much as they do. Some typical comments: "The truth is “Sexual Love” is a joke and more to do with body chemistry then anything actually real. Wow… Awesome...

One Simple Thing You Can Do Tonight to Awe Your Wife

One Simple Thing You Can Do Tonight to Awe Your Wife

If you’re married with kids, you know that keeping their clutter contained is like killing a Hydra. Chop off one head and three spring up to take its place. The Clutter Dilemma can drive even the sanest parent wild with frustration. What you don’t know, though, is...