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Best Lube Ever! Why You Need It Even if You Think You Don’t
“My wife doesn't get "wet" like she used to. Sometimes not at all! This is something new that’s gradually getting worse. In the past, doing a little oral on "dry" evenings did the trick, but now that's not even working. Could her age have something to do with it?...
The #1 Way to Kill Your Wife’s Sex Drive
Here's a situation I run across from time to time. My wife sent me some stuff about dominance a couple of years ago … I don’t know … all these websites where they talked about the guy taking the lead and being in charge in the bedroom, slapping her on the ass, being...
Sleep Apnea Lowers IQ and Makes You Lose Your Mind … Literally!
You already know you’re not as sharp after losing a few nights’ sleep, but what you probably don’t know is that if your snoring results from sleep apnea, you might actually be doing permanent, possibly irreversible, damage to your brain. Weird, but true. Losing Brain...
Do You Have Something that Will Make Me Want Sex?
"Do you have something that will make me want sex again?" she asked, a slight note of desperation in her voice. I paused and looked at her for a moment, not quite sure how to respond. She glanced away, not wanting to meet my eyes, and I realized she was acutely...
Magic Massage – How to Heat Your Wife Up
My husband found some massage videos on YouTube, and decided to practice, using me as his guinea pig. He's given me massages before, but Wow! this one was different. There was quivering, there was shaking, there was shuddering. From 0 to 60 in under 20...
How Two Women Got Their Hot & Sexy Husbands Back
And for those out there who are still wondering whether optimizing testosterone levels really makes a difference ... Look at how these two women got back their hot and sexy husbands. "His libido is out the roof," she says, blushing ......
Try This One Simple Habit to Bring Your Wife Closer
One thing I've noticed while working with couples is how little face-to-face time they actually spend together. We all know the drill … you get home from work and barely have time to acknowledge each other before one of you has to start dinner and the other leaves to...
How Not to Screw Up Your Kid When It Comes to Sex
"Well, if you and Dad have a lot of sex, then it must be okay." This was my daughter’s conclusion at the end of a long conversation about the birds and the bees. What you tell your kid about sex matters. As a parent, you have an incredible amount of influence over how...
5 Ways a Blindfold Helps Your Wife Let Go of Her ‘Good Girl’
You know that thing your wife does where she becomes an octopus during sex, and all of a sudden, it seems like she has eight hands that cover up all the fun parts? And she talks about how fat she is and wants you to turn off the lights and not look at anything? Yeah …...
How to Trigger Her Responsive Desire & Get the Sex You Want
"How can I get my wife to be as interested in sex as I am? She just never seems to think about it at all." You are the one who’s in control of your wife’s desire. That’s a bold statement, I know. And probably hard for you to believe. After reading this post, you...
The Secret to Why Your Wife Doesn’t Initiate Sex
So, you’ve been working on the things that build attraction in your marriage, and your wife has become much more interested in you. You’re getting a lot more yes’s and a lot fewer no’s. The only problem is … she never initiates. If you left it up to her, the two of...
How a Checkerboard Explains Why Your Wife Isn’t Having Sex With You
If you're like many men, you are incredibly frustrated in your marriage. Sex is less frequent and less passionate than you'd like. Every time you initiate, it's a hit-or-miss prospect as to whether or not your wife will respond. Worse, on the nights she does respond,...
7 Mistakes Guys Make That Prove Deadly to Their Marriage
On May 31, 1970, the inhabitants of Yungay, Peru, were doing their normal Sunday stuff ... getting home from church, preparing their mid-day meal and watching the eagerly anticipated Italy-Brazil World Cup Match. No one felt the first tremors from the earthquake 22...
Testosterone Therapy: What Your Doctor Forgot to Mention
Heading the list of Things You Wish Your Doctor Had Told You ... Testosterone therapy usually causes infertility in men. I'm always floored when a guy tells me that his doctor didn't mention this. Because if you still want kids/more kids, this is kind of an important...
How to Get Your Wife on Board With Testosterone Therapy
Part One, Top 3 Reasons Your Wife Doesn’t Want You to Start T Therapy and Why You Can’t Let that Affect You So your wife is giving you a hard time about testosterone therapy because she's afraid. She's afraid it will turn you into a raging maniac ... She's afraid of...
One Surefire Way to Tank Your Wife’s Attraction – The Rosie Paradox
Take a look at this picture. But then again, I didn't even have to ask, did I? You did it without even thinking. Your eyes focused on Salma Hayek, and automatically went to her breasts, her legs and her hips without realizing what you were doing. Your pupils dilated,...
Men Who Treat Low T 56% Less Likely to Die
A recent large study of roughly 83,000 men with low testosterone shows that the men who normalized their T levels were 56 percent less likely to die during the follow-up period than the men who didn't treat their low testosterone. They were also significantly less...
Getting Down to the Nitty Gritty
Parts One, Two and Three. So you're ready to add some dominance to the bedroom, but you have absolutely no idea what that looks like. You still feel a bit uncomfortable with the whole thing, and you'd really like to go slowly by taking some baby steps toward being...
Dominance, Really?
Parts One and Two. "I don't get it. My wife is attracted by dominant behavior? MY wife? You don't understand, my wife isn't like that. She's very quiet, she's very shy. She'd kill me if I tried any of this dominance stuff in the bedroom. What IS dominance, anyway?...
The Caveman Within. He Said
Building on the ideas from Part 1. While women need and crave dominance from their man in order to feel attracted, many men find themselves incapable of acting in ways that attract their woman. I frequently talk to men who are completely frustrated by this aspect of...
The Caveman Within. She Said
My husband is so passive during sex. I want him to ramp it up a bit, hold me down and have his way with me. I’ve tried to tell him, but it doesn’t seem to make a difference. What can I do to get him to up the ante? Why can’t he just get it?" Your husband has a...
Top 3 Reasons Your Wife Doesn’t Want You to Start T Therapy and Why You Can’t Let that Affect You
You've just found out that your T levels are low and the news was like a kick to the gut. This is the time when you most need your wife's support, but it's nowhere to be found. I'm trying to figure out what to say to my wife about T therapy. My levels came back low,...
Top 10 Ways to Increase Testosterone Naturally
I'm frequently asked whether guys can increase their T levels naturally. The answer is a resounding yes! There are a lot of different things you can do that increase your T levels, and most of them are not all that difficult. Before I describe natural ways to increase...
Wife Makes a Big Deal About Acne
"My wife had a lot to say about how horrible the acne on my back was, and that it was all because of the T therapy. She'd use any excuse to get me to quit taking testosterone, but I have to admit that the acne does look pretty bad." For some guys, taking testosterone...
One Simple Tip to Get Your Wife to Try a New Position
"The only way my wife will have sex is missionary. I really want to do doggie with her, but she won't hear of it. I've tried just putting her in position, but she always squirms away." Women hate having sex in doggie position because they're self-conscious...
I Hate All That Green Crap
Okay, this is embarrassing to admit, but I hate vegetables. Most vegetables, anyway. Especially all those green, leafy veggies that are so good for you and prevent cancer and all that. I want to like them. I try to like them. They seem so appealing when I watch...
Are You Aging Yourself by 15 Years?
Reader Question: I am 39 years old, and have always been thin. I wanted to start building muscle to attract my wife, but wasn't getting great results. I decided to get a physical to see what was going on. I really didn't think there was any problem with my...
Facing the Lions
You know how it is when your brain is working on a new concept and all around you, the world keeps throwing you examples? That's how it's been for me for the last few months. I've been studying the concept of how people learn new behaviors and what makes some people...
Conversations from the Gym
So, why do you think that is? Do you think it's because of all the media that portrays men as clueless idiots? Yeah, maybe that plays into it, but no, I think the biggest thing is that men don't fight tigers, anymore. There were only 4 of us left after our workout;...
Good-Bye to the Sun
First Day of Fall. For those of us in the Northern hemisphere, that means it's getting tough to get any Vitamin D from the sun. The sun's altitude has to be 50 degrees or higher in order to provide you with Vitamin D. So, in Chicago, for example, your window for...