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Attract Your Wife – Weekend Warrior Tip #4: Stand Your Ground
4th in a series … Things You Can Do This Weekend to Attract Your Wife Quickest way to attract your wife? Stand up to her. Sounds deceptively simple, but if you’ve been married for a while, you know how difficult it can be. If...

Attract Your Wife – Weekend Tip #3: Go Do Your Own Thing
3rd in a series … Things You Can Do This Weekend to Attract Your Wife This one sounds counter-intuitive ... how does leaving your wife at the house and going off to do something fun by yourself build attraction? After all,...

Attract Your Wife – Weekend Tip #2: Hold a Planning Meeting
2nd in a series … Things You Can Do This Weekend to Attract Your Wife Last week, I talked about how to lead by pulling your wife into your orbit with positive energy and a sense of fun. Another aspect of leadership is simply...

Attract Your Wife – Weekend Tip #1: Do Something Active with Her
1st in a series … Things You Can Do This Weekend to Attract Your Wife Leadership. It’s a misunderstood concept. You don’t have to beat your chest and dictate to people in order to lead. At its best, leadership involves pulling,...

Yes, But What if We Really *Are* Turning the Freakin’ Frogs Gay?
You know, I’m not really a conspiracy theorist. I don’t think George Bush caused 9/11, I think we really did walk on the moon, and I don’t think chem trails are turning the freakin’ frogs … well, hold on a sec … There is...

5 Reasons Not to Settle for ‘Duty Sex’
Duty sex, pity sex, guilt sex, starfish sex, hate sex … there are a lot of different names for it. It’s this idea that in a marriage, the lower-drive partner (usually the wife, but not always) should have sex simply to please...

How Much Sunshine Do You Need for Powerful Erections?
If you listen to mainstream media, you get the idea that we should all avoid any hint of deadly sunshine. Turns out that while the vampire lifestyle may be great for your complexion, it’s hell on your erections. In fact, Dracula...

Why She Doesn’t Want Sex Even when She’s Attracted … 5 Ways to Build Intimacy
My blog post ideas typically come straight from things going on with my coaching clients. One thing I’m seeing a lot of lately is a lack of intimacy/connection in the couples I work with, and the resulting decline in their sex...

7-Minute Fix that Instantly Improves Intimacy
If I told you it’s possible to hack into the brain and almost instantly increase feelings of love and intimacy, would you believe it? It’s actually true. Take two people, put them together with certain questions and have them...

5 Ways to Get Her Off Her Phone and Into Bed
Ever wonder why she’ll stay on Facebook or play Candy Crush for hours, but has absolutely no energy for sex? One word answer … Dopamine. Dopamine is the chemical in our brain that rewards us with pleasure whenever we do...