Getting Down to the Nitty Gritty

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Parts One, Two and Three. So you’re ready to add some dominance to the bedroom, but you have absolutely no idea what that looks like. You still feel a bit uncomfortable with the whole thing, and you’d really like to go slowly by taking some baby steps...

Dominance, Really?

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Parts One and Two. “I don’t get it. My wife is attracted by dominant behavior? MY wife? You don’t understand, my wife isn’t like that. She’s very quiet, she’s very shy. She’d kill me if I tried any of this dominance stuff in...

The Caveman Within. He Said

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Building on the ideas from Part 1. While women need and crave dominance from their man in order to feel attracted, many men find themselves incapable of acting in ways that attract their woman. I frequently talk to men who are completely frustrated by this aspect of...

The Caveman Within. She Said

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My husband is so passive during sex. I want him to ramp it up a bit, hold me down and have his way with me. I’ve tried to tell him, but it doesn’t seem to make a difference. What can I do to get him to up the ante? Why can’t he just get it?”  Your husband has a...