Wondering why she runs hot and cold all the time? Attracted one minute, turned off the next?
Discover the daily micro-interactions that tank attraction & make you seem needy.
One of the most powerful ways to kill attraction is to seek affirmation from your wife in a way that comes across as needy.
And my guess is you’re doing this in ways you don’t even recognize.
Everyone wants validation and affirmation from their partner. It’s totally okay and normal to need these things.
But you’ve got to go about getting it in a way that comes across bold and confident, even cocky, rather than needy.
Neediness Will *Kill* Attraction in Your Marriage
Needing something and being needy are 2 different things.
Boldly and openly going after something you need builds attraction in your marriage; being needy kills it. That’s the difference.
The trick is that you can go after anything you want as long as you do it from a strong frame.
So when you want affirmation from your wife, it’s okay to seek it out, but you have to come at it from a place of confidence and strength.
You do it in a way that builds attraction in her.
A Weak Frame Can Absolutely RUIN Your Sex Life
This is Why She Runs Hot and Cold
Can you spot what this guy is doing that’s lowering attraction …
Do you see what he’s fishing for?
He comes across as needy …
Bold, confident humor redeem the situation …
See the difference?
Confident Masculinity Creates Attraction & Sexual Desire
At first, he came across as needy because he was indirect about what he wanted. He was afraid to boldly seek the affirmation he needed.
But then, his natural confidence came out and he threw caution to the wind, laying claim to what he wanted.
That’s the charm of it for a woman … a man who’s so secure that he states his needs with a total absence of fear or caution.
That’s the confident masculine frame that creates attraction & desire in your wife.
He was also bold enough to use some humor and throw in a little ‘dirty’ talk.’
Masculine Confidence: The Magic Trifecta
Confidence, humor, and some ‘dirty talk’. It’s like the magic trifecta!
It’s not easy to get to this ninja level; you have to make the changes that build your masculine confidence. It takes knowledge and practice to lay the background.
But when you see the attraction in your marriage grow …
When your wife is laughing as you wave your equipment around and brag about it …
When your sex life takes on new life …
There’s no doubt in your mind that it was totally worth the effort.
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