Most men get a huge kick out of their wife’s orgasm, especially if they get to help along the way.
In fact, studies show that guys say a woman’s orgasm is one of the “most sexually satisfying experiences men could have.” And I’m sure it comes as no surprise to hear that many men said it was “distressing,” for their woman not to climax, especially if they were in a long-term relationship.
Given all that, there are two fairly simple things you can do to help improve your odds of getting her there.
Warm Her Up
This one isn’t really intuitive, but we know from studies that women reach orgasm quicker when they’re warm, especially their feet.
Women tend to be colder than men, and while you’re sweating away in the bedroom, chances are she’s not. A simple fix is to have her take a hot bath or shower before sex. It takes away any lingering concerns she has about hygiene and odor, but more importantly, it keeps her warm for a while.
You can also put socks on her. Which sounds slightly strange, but it actually does make it easier for her to orgasm. It can also be a sexy look, especially if you try something like these fuzzy thigh-highs.
Lube Her Up
The other thing you can do is to simply use external lube. Women report that sex is more pleasurable and they are more likely to orgasm when they use lube. Here’s a great one to try.