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The Secret to Why Your Wife Doesn’t Initiate Sex

The Secret to Why Your Wife Doesn’t Initiate Sex

So, you’ve been working on the things that build attraction in your marriage, and your wife has become much more interested in you. You’re getting a lot more yes’s and a lot fewer no’s. The only problem is … she never initiates. If you left it up to her, the two of...

7 Mistakes Guys Make That Prove Deadly to Their Marriage

7 Mistakes Guys Make That Prove Deadly to Their Marriage

On May 31, 1970, the inhabitants of Yungay, Peru, were doing their normal Sunday stuff ... getting home from church, preparing their mid-day meal and watching the eagerly anticipated Italy-Brazil World Cup Match.  No one felt the first tremors from the earthquake 22...

Testosterone Therapy: What Your Doctor Forgot to Mention

Testosterone Therapy: What Your Doctor Forgot to Mention

Heading the list of Things You Wish Your Doctor Had Told You ... Testosterone therapy usually causes infertility in men. I'm always floored when a guy tells me that his doctor didn't mention this. Because if you still want kids/more kids, this is kind of an important...

Why He Still Doesn’t Buy You Lingerie

Why He Still Doesn’t Buy You Lingerie

"Take a look under your pillow," my husband told me. "What?" I asked. "Just look." I moved my pillow and saw a black lace thong. "I want you to put this on after your bath tonight," he said, looking steadily into my eyes. "Nothing else. Just the thong." I looked down...

Can a Woman Be ‘Hard Up’?

Can a Woman Be ‘Hard Up’?

Paul Byerly over at The XY Code raised some ire with a recent blog post in which he suggested that a woman can't fully understand what it's like for a man to be sexually rejected. He postulates that even if she's the higher-drive partner being rejected by...

How to Get Your Wife on Board With Testosterone Therapy

How to Get Your Wife on Board With Testosterone Therapy

Part One, Top 3 Reasons Your Wife Doesn’t Want You to Start T Therapy and Why You Can’t Let that Affect You So your wife is giving you a hard time about testosterone therapy because she's afraid. She's afraid it will turn you into a raging maniac ... She's afraid of...

Men Who Treat Low T 56% Less Likely to Die

A recent large study of roughly 83,000 men with low testosterone shows that the men who normalized their T levels were 56 percent less likely to die during the follow-up period than the men who didn't treat their low testosterone. They were also significantly less...

Getting Down to the Nitty Gritty

Getting Down to the Nitty Gritty

Parts One, Two and Three. So you're ready to add some dominance to the bedroom, but you have absolutely no idea what that looks like. You still feel a bit uncomfortable with the whole thing, and you'd really like to go slowly by taking some baby steps toward being...

Dominance, Really?

Dominance, Really?

Parts One and Two. "I don't get it. My wife is attracted by dominant behavior? MY wife? You don't understand, my wife isn't like that. She's very quiet, she's very shy. She'd kill me if I tried any of this dominance stuff in the bedroom. What IS dominance, anyway?...

The Caveman Within. He Said

The Caveman Within. He Said

Building on the ideas from Part 1. While women need and crave dominance from their man in order to feel attracted, many men find themselves incapable of acting in ways that attract their woman. I frequently talk to men who are completely frustrated by this aspect of...

The Caveman Within. She Said

The Caveman Within. She Said

My husband is so passive during sex. I want him to ramp it up a bit, hold me down and have his way with me. I’ve tried to tell him, but it doesn’t seem to make a difference. What can I do to get him to up the ante? Why can’t he just get it?"    Your husband has a...

Low T Wife Meets High T Marriage

Low T Wife Meets High T Marriage

The most important thing I've learned while coaching people who are struggling in low T marriages is how important it is for them to have hope that their situation can change. When my husband and I were in the depths of the low T years, neither of us could picture it...

From 0 to 672 in Eight Weeks

By now, many of you are familiar with the TED Talk video where Amy Cuddy discusses how dominant poses can increase testosterone levels and decrease cortisol levels. If you've been a coaching client, I know you're familiar with it because it's very likely been a...

Top 10 Ways to Increase Testosterone Naturally

Top 10 Ways to Increase Testosterone Naturally

I'm frequently asked whether guys can increase their T levels naturally. The answer is a resounding yes! There are a lot of different things you can do that increase your T levels, and most of them are not all that difficult. Before I describe natural ways to increase...

Wife Makes a Big Deal About Acne

Wife Makes a Big Deal About Acne

"My wife had a lot to say about how horrible the acne on my back was, and that it was all because of the T therapy. She'd use any excuse to get me to quit taking testosterone, but I have to admit that the acne does look pretty bad." For some guys, taking testosterone...

One Simple Tip to Get Your Wife to Try a New Position

One Simple Tip to Get Your Wife to Try a New Position

"The only way my wife will have sex is missionary. I really want to do doggie with her, but she won't hear of it. I've tried just putting her in position, but she always squirms away."   Women hate having sex in doggie position because they're self-conscious...

I Hate All That Green Crap

I Hate All That Green Crap

  Okay, this is embarrassing to admit, but I hate vegetables. Most vegetables, anyway. Especially all those green, leafy veggies that are so good for you and prevent cancer and all that. I want to like them. I try to like them. They seem so appealing when I watch...

Are You Aging Yourself by 15 Years?

Are You Aging Yourself by 15 Years?

Reader Question:  I am 39 years old, and have always been thin. I wanted to start building muscle to attract my wife, but wasn't getting great results.   I decided to get a physical to see what was going on. I really didn't think there was any problem with my...

Facing the Lions

You know how it is when your brain is working on a new concept and all around you, the world keeps throwing you examples? That's how it's been for me for the last few months. I've been studying the concept of how people learn new behaviors and what makes some people...

Conversations from the Gym

So, why do you think that is? Do you think it's because of all the media that portrays men as clueless idiots? Yeah, maybe that plays into it, but no, I think the biggest thing is that men don't fight tigers, anymore. There were only 4 of us left after our workout;...

Good-Bye to the Sun

Good-Bye to the Sun

First Day of Fall. For those of us in the Northern hemisphere, that means it's getting tough to get any Vitamin D from the sun. The sun's altitude has to be 50 degrees or higher in order to provide you with Vitamin D. So, in Chicago, for example, your window for...

Why I’ll Never Tell My Son He’s Smart … Sal Khan

Why I’ll Never Tell My Son He’s Smart … Sal Khan

Great post from Sal Khan, founder and owner of Khan Academy.   For those who don't know Khan's story, the TL;DR is that he's a really smart guy from Metairie, Louisiana, who has 3 math/engineering/computer degrees from MIT and an MBA from Harvard. He worked in...